I was flipping through the channels the other day and listened to Kevin Leman talk about his new book "Have a New Kid by Friday." It sounded like a great companion to Dr. Dobson's "Strong Willed Child" book. I haven't started reading it yet but from what I heard, it has some commonsense ways to help all of us parents with our strong willed kids. Personally, I don't think Sarah will change over by Friday, but I'd be happy to be proven wrong!
I'll let you know how it goes.